Live a life of Fuck YEs!
What is something in your life that is a total Fuck yes?
It could be your job, a friend, or that sandwich shop down the street.
How do you feel when you think about that thing? Do you feel energized, curious, excited? Maybe you feel relaxed and happy?
Now think about something in your life that is not a f-yes. How do you feel when you think about that thing? Maybe less energy? Is there tension in your body? Maybe you feel unmotivated or nervous?
Now imagine that every part of your life was a loud and clear YES! What would that even feel like? What would that look like? Who would you be?
So many people are getting by, doing what they need to do, checking the boxes on their list, but living a life that isn't a total Fuck Yes! There are societal pressures and personal responsibilities. We all have habits of existing at certain energy levels. But "getting by" is no way to live. I want you to tap into your creative genius. I want you to live a life of joy and passion.
One of the slogans that I love from consent educators is "Nothing less than a 'Fuck Yes!'" This is a statement of minimum requirement for engaging in intimacy. This makes sense to me. I don't want anyone to be an "okay" about being intimate with me.
But why should I stop at physical intimacy? I want to be a 'FuckYes' about my whole life. I want you to be a 'Fuck Yes' about your whole life. The catch, it's not easy.
The work I do opens the mental, emotional, and physical channels to experiencing more desire, joy, and creative genius. More than figuring something out at an intellectual level, we need to be deeply in touch with the embodied feeling of what we really want and what we don't want.
My work isn't for everybody. For a lot of people, I'm a little too out there. I don't work to make people feel better but to help them grow. This requires questioning the norms, assumptions and status quo.
If any of this sounds relevant for you hit the button below and schedule a free consultation. On this call we will dive into your personal context and get an idea of where you are in your personal growth journey. We will then have some time to evaluate if it makes sense for us to work together. My commitment is that regardless of your decision to work with me or not, you will leave that call with more understanding and energy than before.
Click the link below to book the time on my calendar that works for both of us. Then, when I call, answer the phone prepared to be ruthlessly honest as we dive into your hero's journey.
Frequently asked Questions
Do you give dating advice?
I help people connect to their hearts, communicate their desires, and create lives of passion and joy. This inevitably leads to better intimate relationships and romance. I don't tell people how to behave or what to say, I'm much more inclined to give perspectives and exercises than advice.
Can you help with Pick-Up techniques?
The short answer is "No". The longer answer is that usually people looking for pick-up techniques are doing so because they lack love and affection. Creating a life of passion and integrity will tend to draw people to you and open up doorways to connection and affection. But it will do so in a way that is a genuine expression of who that person is rather than "techniques" to appear more desirable.
Are you a consent educator?
The short answer is "No". I am a life and relationship coach for men. I help men discover their passion and purpose. In doing so we almost always find behaviors and subconscious patterns that have been causing harm to themselves and those around them. By increasing awareness and compassion people generally become much better at asking for what they want and exploring intimacy from a space of abundance and patience. This leads to better consent practice.
Do you Deal with Toxic Masculinity?
There are a lot of factors that go into finding a sense of purpose, joy, and connection. Many of these factors are personal, many are cultural, and some are just part of being human. Each culture will present different challenges, each individual context will impact the work.
What is Toxic Masculinity?
Toxic masculinity generally refers to cultural norms associated with being a man that are harmful to the individual and other people in that individuals life. It does not mean that all masculinity is toxic. It just means that there are some forms of masculinity that are harmful.