12 Things Worth Striving For
I like things that make life more awesome. The below are my "life hacks" for awesomeness. These are things I strive for, knowing that I...
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Food for Thought
My Lover Likes to Change Her Clothes
My lover likes to change her clothes Sometimes a dark evening gown Other times, a frumpy sweater Somehow, always more beautiful Sometimes...
5 Tips For Hosting a Men's Group
I have been leading men's groups for over 10 years in many different formats and communities. I can tell you that there is no "right" way...
Breaking Free of Limiting Motivators
What motivates you to excel at your job? What motivates you to pursue someone you are attracted to? What motivates you to workout and...
Therapist or Coach?
People have asked me for a therapist referral and when I asked them what kind of therapy they want, it's obvious they are actually...
My Greatest Fear
My greatest fear in relationship is that she leaves. She leaves and my life is destroyed. This fear comes from my childhood. I have...
The Road to Authentic Swagger
Beautiful women used to drive me crazy. I would see an attractive woman and instead of being filled with joy, I would begin to...
It's Not About Consent...
It's not about consent... It's about mind-blowing love. Pleasure requires relaxation, and relaxation requires safety. If my lover does...
If you are pretty...
"If you are pretty you are not smart." "If you are beautiful, you are not tough." These were the phrases that popped into my head while...
Evolving Masculinity on King5
This was a short segment to promote our town hall event on evolving masculinity in a post #metoo era. It was exciting to share this work...
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