Beautiful Masculinity
The #metoo movement has made clear what many of us have known for a while: there is a problem with the culture of masculinity. In the...
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We are men who are not ashamed of our masculinity We are men who are willing to look at our faults and our demons We are men who see...
Who Initiates Sex?
"I pretty much always have to initiate sex" My buddy told me. I sensed a little resentment and asked him about it. He said it wasn't a...
Guilt and Loneliness
My past guilt and loneliness came from the same source. I grew up in a culture that told me that to be a man is to be tough. I learned...
Rebuilding...
How do you rebuild after break up? A lot of people say that you need to be alone. You need to learn to love yourself. You need to heal. I...
Do Whatever the Fuck You Want
Friends often ask me how to approach someone. They tell me they are not sure what to say. They don't want to come off too aggressive, or...
Breakups Are Not Failures
Do you ever feel like you suck at relationships? I often hear people talk about "failed relationships". Sometimes they use the word...
Making the "Friend Zone" work for you
Oh, the “friend zone”! That lukewarm sexless purgatory where nice guys are sent by the woman of their dreams. I remember Caitlyn Shuman...
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